Dr. Lara May

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How to Handle Negativity the Healthy Way

Do you ever feel yourself getting weighed down by the negative things in life? The way that you confront these issues can have a major effect on the amount of energy that you put into them. The good news is that you can learn a group of tricks to keep yourself from getting sucked too heavily into a doomed way of thinking. If you could learn these tricks, would you use them right away? Keep reading to find out how to handle negativity in a much healthier way.

 

Pain Is a Natural Reaction

 

One thing that a lot of people seem to forget is that it’s normal to feel hurt or upset when bad things are done or said to you. It’s important for you to accept that you can be affected by things in your environment, but how you choose to deal with them is always a matter of how you choose to react to the situation. Instead of burying pain, or becoming a reactionary, you can aim to make more productive choices, but being sad is a part of life.

 

Find Ways to Express Yourself

 

When you’re feeling upset, there are a lot of ways to deal with your emotions. One way that people have dealt with their emotions since the beginning of time is through that of expression. People Have a desire to create things, and art in its various forms can be an excellent way to express feelings that you might not be able to discuss in conventional ways. Things like musical pieces and paintings can express multifaceted and subtle shades of emotion. That’s part of why art can stand the test of time to the point that art remains valuable hundreds of years after it has been created and the creator has long since passed away.

 

Do Something Healthy for Yourself

 

Choose something healthy that you can do for yourself. This can include things like learning new languages, taking a bath, working out, or anything else that enriches your quality of life. Giving yourself something good to focus on can also give you a lot of confidence. Increasing your skill set will almost certainly open new doors for you in the future.

 

 Breathe Deeply

 

Don’t forget to breathe deeply, and completely. Another reason that people have panic attacks is because they have bad breathing habits. People who don’t breathe deeply enough can cause their heart to become weak over time. 


If you find yourself needing help and support developing this mindset, then please reach out. I am here for your support.

You can schedule a free discovery session to discuss your goals and we can come up with plan for success together.


Love & Light,

Dr Lara

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